This post is all
about integration. Not so much service integration as personal integration
although what affects the individual can affect the service. It comes from myself and Denis meeting for lunch one day in Bradford. Two particular stories were
shared in that conversation, one was a very sad tale, the other was a beautiful
and inspiring one.
They both point
to the need for what Carl Jung called 'individuation'. This is where the innate
elements of a person come together and become a working integrated whole. This
is the path to psychological wellness and wholeness. Jung saw this as a journey
and a deep work. He referred to the 'cure of souls'. Some have suggested that a
film like 'Star Wars' is all about individuation. The Jungian analyst Stephen
Galipeau wrote a whole book on the subject. Star Wars is all about a young man, Luke Skywalker, who leaves his family as he feels pulled away from the familiar
and towards an unknown adventure. This journey becomes a search for the truth -
the truth about himself. It is a quest for his true self. He encounters the
good and the bad. He has the face the shadow aspects of an Evil Empire and
Darth Vader (who turns out to be his own father). In the journey he discovers
his own power ('the Force') and has to learn to use it. In this passage Luke
finds the truth and becomes who he is. He becomes actualised. This is a journey
we all can take. Jung speaks of those who hear the call of the inner person to
grow and develop. 'They are called' Jung remarks.
The first story was someone who we know who has taken time off work with stress. He
works for a non NHS organisation. Where he works can be very rigid and some
people there can struggle with all the rules and control. We wondered how much
a culture (that doesn't always support but controls) had been a factor in this
good man's struggles. His job is with people and is often a lonely one. We were
both struck by the need for structures that nurture and develop us. We see this
as the need for wellness practice and wellness structures. We should all have a
wellness practice. Something that keeps us connected to our true self and
nourishes us with inner food. Along with this, the emergence of workplace
structures that nurture wellness and health should be welcomed. We need to move
away from 'institutional' templates to templates that think of what help staff
to work and be healthy.
The second story
was about a good friend of ours who is on the individuation journey. This
offers great hope and scope to us. This person is undergoing what we can only
transformation. Jung compared the process to alchemy where base metals were
transmuted into gold. Our friend is turning the base metals of his life into
the gold of a real and free personality. Words like harmonious, peaceful, calm,
responsible, free and open come immediately to mind and experience in knowing
him. He has worked on dropping certain
things from his life - things which acted as chains. He now projects a wisdom,
presence and compassion. This transformation enables him to transform
situations and help others on their transformation journey. Jung referred to
the undiscovered self. This friend is on the road which will lead to the
discovery of the True Beautiful Self we all are and have. To not take this
journey can lead in Jung's words to a 'painful fragmentariness' in life.
The good news is
that this transformation is both possible and is happening. In the story of
Humpty Dumpty he fell from a wall and no one could put the pieces back together
again. The great thing is we can. We can re-integrate the pieces and become
whole again in a new and brighter way than before. Often we don't know our
gifts, power and sheer amazingness. There has to be a process of discovery.
This means seeing, owning and manifesting who and what we are. When we do that
that's when the magic starts to appear. When we think of great services like
the NHS we wonder if this shouldn't play a key role in staff development. Work
can often be on a surface level. This is depth work supporting us all find our
own inner treasure. The staff and patients of the NHS and other services (in
fact every human being) have incredible gifts and energies. The question is how
we support each other release them. It is our view that unless we touch the
deep we won't receive it.
John Walsh. Support Manager. York Street Health Practice
Denis Jackson. Mental Health Chaplain. South West
Yorkshire Partnership NHS Foundation Trust
There is an inner treasure indeed, I am so happy your friend has found it. Let his joy be proof that indeed it is true.
ReplyDeleteI came to this blog post in search of a chaplin named Denis Jackson who left a comment on my website blog last May. So, I am delighted to see that what I found is further discussion about finding and knowing this inner joy as Joel Goldsmith describes in his book The Infinite Way and I in mine, Listen Hear, A Divine Love Story.
As I came upon your comment again to day Denis and wished for the opportunity to chat with you. I have been reading Goldsmith again as well as the words of many Christian mystics and believe within the words shared a way is told for all of us to release our pain and learn to live as God meant men to live. May your joy be full. - Deb