“Who in the world am I? Ah, that's the great puzzle.” asks
Alice.
This is interesting as it brings us to the question of
identity - who and what we actually are. A few months ago one of the writers
sat in a coffee shop with a leading national figure in the NHS. The
conversation turned to identity and how it was so vital that people found out
who they really were. The national figure went on to say these words 'It's only
when we find ourselves that everything makes sense. It's only when we find
ourselves that it all fits together'. This is so true not just of individuals
but also of services. We can walk around in the words of the Tom Cruise film
with 'Eyes Wide Shut'. This is something truly tragic. It's only when we know
ourselves that our gifts and potential can really start to function and flow as
they should. This is not a new idea. It is said by some that The Temple of Apollo at Delphi in Ancient
Greece had over its entrance the amazing words 'Know thyself and all the
mysteries of the gods and the universe will reveal themselves to you.' Self
knowledge is the key. The magic starts when we start to see who and what we
truly are. The Temple builders knew this and Alice points to this too.
“You used to be much more..."muchier." You've lost
your muchness.” said the Mad Hatter.
Muchness. What can
this mean? We would offer the following definition. Muchness is who we have
become through our life journey. Yes, its who we are at
work , what we do at work but its more than that. It’s what we stand for
and how we offer our own self into the community we live in. It is about all the learning we have done in our whole lives ,
the ups and the downs, not just our work
lives. It’s about what we choose to pay attention to, give our attention and
our effort to. In the recent past one of the authors was fortunate enough to be
trained in ‘social movement methods’ ,
this approach developed by Marshall Ganz
at Harvard Business School and brought to the NHS by Helen Bevan (Chief
Transformation Officer, NHSIQ). This approach offers us the opportunity to view all the
resources we have within
ourselves. These resources of time, skills, knowledge, and most importantly our passion are powerful resources we can offer if we choose to. This
is important learning as we often think about resources in the public sector as
access to budgets, but actually the resource we have within our own selves are
often much more potent.
We would suggest that these are the
things of our muchness. Our best business is to make sure our muchness
remains intact in the struggles and vicissitudes of life and work. That's what
our focus should be. The Duchess in the novel says, 'If everybody minded their
own business, the world would go around a great deal faster than it does.'
Maybe if our focus was on our own development what challenges us most would
change too.
So Alice points us to our muchness
and links to the point above about identity. In chapter two ,Alice
grows to massive size. Her body fills the house and her head hits the ceiling.
She becomes very unhappy and starts to cry.
Out of control ego is an awful thing. We hear phrases like
'He's full of himself' and 'Her ego is so big it can be seen from space'. This
sort of ego takes us to places where we cannot see others or really care for
them. Like poor Alice, ego fills a room with our importance, position, title and
demands. It also like Alice brings us to tears. Ego could stand for 'Edging
good out'. It looks away from others and their good and riches and wants all
the glory and limelight. Usually those who follow this path end up very
disappointed as the world will not follow and dance around them. This genus of
ego is also such a destructive thing. It's the power that won't forget, won't
forgive and won't share. The hard knocks at work are not easy to take but they
do help us to realise that we are not the chain just a link. They have the
power and energy to teach us humility.
'How puzzling all these changes are! I'm never sure what I'm
going to be, from one minute to another.' said Alice.
Change is a fact of
our life and work. We probably undergo more changes in our lives than any of
our ancestors and certainly at a more rapid rate. In the story Alice has to
learn each game and its rules. She has to learn how to adapt and cope with each
changing and bewildering event. Not easy
but doable. There is an adaptability alongside a questioning and searching in
Alice. Neither a passive 'going along with things as they are' nor a fiery
refusal and confrontation but rather a learning, questioning and further
search.
There is also the
deep truth about change from Alice. She says, 'I can't go back to yesterday
because I was a different person then.' There are actually two deep truths here. The first is the power of
today. A famous actress once spoke of her fight with alcohol. She said that one
of the valuable lessons she learnt was that she didn't have a time machine to
go back and change the past. Neither did she have a crystal ball to see the
future. What she had was today and she could make the very best of that to
herself and others. Alice's point that we can't go back should challenge us to
live in the now. The second thing is that we are not static unchangeable fixed
objects. We can change and we do change. The challenge is will we take the
direction and initiative to direct that change? Becoming a different person - a
better person is certainly possible but it
doesn't come free or without a price tag. In times of change we need the
acceptance and learning spirit of Alice. We also need to seek whatever change
and growth we ourselves may need.
So Alice points to our need to discover our true self. To
own, nurture and protect our muchness. To control our egos. To work with change
and even change ourselves. Some one may still ask 'What has this to do with
work?' Here we come to the chasm separating those who see work mainly as
concerned with systems and those who see work as centrally about people. For
those of us in the latter camp - and we are proud to be there - the story of
Alice points to what we all should be and can be. Just think what life and work
would be like then.
John Walsh, York Street Health Practice
Dr Maxine Craig, Head of Organisation Development at South Tees NHS Trust and Visiting Professor at Sunderland University.
I like that....EGO, Edging Out Good. That's exactly what it does. Looking outward instead of inward, seeing the value of the whole. Great article.
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